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The Grapes of Wrath

Updated: Mar 2

A while ago now, I stopped counting and jotting down the number of grapes I was eating in a single sitting. I have become content with not having to control the exact number, size and colour of my grape allotment. I have made peace with “a handful”. (When it comes to grapes, anyway. Nuts, crisps, even raisins, are a different matter entirely). 

Or, so I thought. 

This morning, the woman upstairs was insistent that I had too many grapes. 

I don’t specifically know how many I had, because I simply grabbed a handful from the fridge to have with my breakfast…just like a normal person who happened to like grapes would probably do. I don’t know how big each grape was. I do know that they were all green, but only because it was an entirely green bunch and I am not colour blind. 

It doesn’t matter, though. It was too many. However many it was, the woman upstairs decided it was too many and there was no changing her mind. It was one of those situations in which I simply wasn't going to get a word in edgeways. Like someone elderly slowly losing her mind to dementia, she can be more reasonable and lucid on some days, or hours, than others. She can also be more cruel on some days than others. 

No, we're not going back to this. I've had enough of counting grapes. We've moved past this. I still spend enough of my time counting raisins, Maltesers, grams of granola, ravioli parcels, cashews, potatoes, Polo mints, the number of seeds in my wholegrain bread…*sigh*. I don't want to be counting grapes as well.  

“I’m gettin’ tired way past where sleep rests me.”

Like the one taken by the Joads in Steinbeck's The Grapes of Wrath, this journey, and indeed this destination, is far from straightforward. There is loss, setback, disappointment, and fear along the way. The destination is hazy, and somewhat ethereal. There are too many elbows in this neoliberal society vying for the top spot without a care for who they injure in the process. There are too many elbows in the lower levels of the capitalist food chain for all to have a chance of survival. In moments of weakness, it often doesn't feel worthwhile. Like the Joads, I'm beginning to wonder whether the California of life beyond anorexia really is the paradise that I’ve been promised. 

Yet also, like the Joad family, there is nothing left for me in the dusty plains of anorexia's Oklahoma. The woman upstairs cannot offer me any more hope of prospering. She's burned my crops and left me bankrupt. Though somehow deciding to leave her fills me with a crooked sense of nostalgia like leaving one's hometown, there is no future with her.

“I’m scared of stuff so nice. I ain’t got faith. I’m scared somepin ain’t so nice about it.”

But unlike the lives of many American Mid-western migrant farm workers in the 1930's, my destination is worth staying on this journey. The American dream of a life beyond anorexia is not a fantasy, filled in reality with yet more oppression and ridicule. I know that it is real, because I've walked this road before. The woman upstairs tries to convince me to stay put, whispering things she's heard about life beyond my current familiar in an attempt to make me tremble. But I've lived in recovery California; and I yearn to return to its oasis. 

So, though we are so often one step forwards and one step back...three steps forwards and two steps back...a lunge forwards, and then a trip up with my face in the dirt...this journey continues on. For, to plagiarise C.S. Lewis yet again, there really are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind. 



“You got to think about that day, an' then the nex' day. Jus' take ever' day.”

John Steinbeck, The Grapes of Wrath


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25 set 2021

You can do this. I've never lost faith.

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